HEALTH TIME

ONE WOMANS EXPERIENCE ON BIRTH IN CH

By: Leila Khenissi,
May 2009


Like many aspects of pregnancy and child rearing, we know, empirically and intuitively that an accurately charted birth experience is elusive. Predicting the course of events during a birth is an approximate endeavor. Thus, this article is meant to merely add a one data point in a less than linear experiment, to maybe add a layer of comfort for those brave or stupid enough to engage in the highly speculative game of parenting. When people become parents, it seems that most of their energy is poured into planning and ensuring (and insuring) in the hopes that our children will be ok, if not perfect.

This article also comes with the caveat that I have never had a child anywhere but in Switzerland, so my experience is lopsided, as my comparison to having a child anywhere else will be based on other people’s stories.

My husband and I visited three hospitals in the Zurich area while I was pregnant to determine which would be best for us. Health insurance in Switzerland works along a three-tier system; one can either have public, semi-private or private insurance. I’ll leave the reader to deduce which one is cheapest. With private insurance, a woman gets a private room in a private clinic, with her doctor at delivery. With semi-private insurance, a woman gets the same as above but without a private room. With public insurance, a woman gets a shared room in a public hospital, where, generally, she will have another doctor perform the delivery. A woman cannot upgrade from public to private insurance if she gets pregnant within a certain timeframe, generally a year from the time her contract starts; thus, if a pregnant woman with public insurance wants private level care, she will need to pay out of pocket.

My husband and I have public insurance and this was not much cause for concern. My personal doctor did not deliver at the public hospitals but given the Swiss medical care’s reputation, we figured any doctor would be pretty good. In our research, we found that the midwives here play a more hands-on role during labor and delivery than the doctor and thus, in our visits to hospitals and clinics, it was they that we sized up rather than other things.

We visited the following three hospitals in the Zurich area: Universitaetspital Zurich (public), Hirslanden clinic (private) and Stadtspital Triemli (public).
Up until my sixth month of pregnancy, I had planned to give birth at Universitaetspital Zurich, as it was the closest to our house. It is also the best equipped of the three for any potential complications. Finally, my husband and I, having spent the past decade on university campuses for one reason or another, were naturally, if irrationally inclined to have a baby on one. There are tours given at the Frauen Clinic, the University’s maternity ward, for expectant parents but they are conducted in German so we opted to schedule an appointment with a midwife, an “absprache”. We as expatriates often hear that everyone in Switzerland speaks English but that’s just not true. The Frauen Clinic sits atop a hill, and after huffing and puffing my way to the reception for my appointment, I was met with a stern man at the lobby. I mumbled something like “geburtplatz?” He narrowed his eyes and responded “stock D”. At “stock D”, I found a nice lady behind a counter who also didn’t speak English but understood French. She took all my information, smiled and disappeared to the back. For twenty minutes. I periodically called out to see if there was a problem. The lady kept turning back to me, smiling, indicating that all was okay. I sat in the waiting area, sweating. The only other person waiting was what could have only been a transgendered woman. My thoughts, generally hemmed in by political correctness, went wild. The person in front of me smiling vaguely, rattled me. What was she doing here? My suspicion was unfair of course but herein lies an aspect to Swiss hospitals that is alien to Americans; a distinct lack of security. It seems any old person can walk in anywhere else. My husband showed up just as a midwife did. After asking me my name, she quipped, “You’re late” and walked off. The lady at the counter, still smiling, assured us she’d be back. Just relax. Be cool. What was wrong with these people? Couldn’t they see I was pregnant and everything mattered? Can anyone be cool when they’re expecting a child?
She did eventually return. She smelled pissed off and annoyed. I still didn’t want to give up on this place so I duly followed her to a room and went through the list of questions I brought. I asked her if I could count on an English speaking midwife being present at the birth; she shrugged and said no. I told her I wanted a natural waterbirth, if possible and she just barely stifled an eye roll. I told her I wanted to breastfeed my child, would they help me to get started? She smirked and answered: “If the baby wants.” The cruelest cut came when I was done with my questions. My husband, hesitant in participating, ventured to ask what would be expected of him. The midwife gleefully slammed her notebook shut and said: “Time’s up! You’ll have to schedule another appointment.”

We were spooked. Had this experience occurred in any other context than birth planning, I would have brushed it off as a possible fluke. Too much was at stake however, so we crossed Universitaetspital off our list. They didn’t cross us off theirs though. A month later, we received a bill of 100 CHF for our abridged “Absprache”.
We then visited Hirslanden clinic, the Dom Perignon of maternity clinics in Zurich. We weren’t seriously considering shelling out 5 digits worth of cash for an experience at Hirslanden but we had scheduled an English language pre-natal class there so we got a chance to check out…where we would have had our child had we been rich!

The weekend course was one big ooh, aah. What impressed us most (to the point where, for about 15 seconds, along with another public-insurance couple, we actually did consider sinking our life savings to give birth at Hirslanden) were essentially bells and whistles. The rooms are huge and outfitted like boutique hotels. We marveled at the wood paneling on the walls that discreetly hid outlets for our laptops. We wistfully admired the designer diaper bag you get when you give birth in Hirslanden. The mid-wife conducting the course seemed to be very warm and experienced but not enough to warrant the price tag of a delivery at the clinic. In fact, the course in itself was one I would not sign up for again: all the information we received, we could have gotten online.

The last hospital we visited was Triemli. The hospital is at a considerable distance from our house given that we don’t have a car. The complex itself is horrendously ugly, a series of over-sized cinder blocks, grey, foreboding. It sits, predictably, in a beautiful part of Zurich, at the foot of the Uetliberg. The hideous, man-made and functional thrust upon the charming, pretty and organic is a leitmotif I see time and again in this wonderful country and I am still not sure what it is due to. In any case, the maternity ward here is in a separate building from the rest of the hospital, a nice nod, I like to think, to the non-pathological nature of birth.

When I visited, the ward was undergoing renovations but the mid-wife I “absprached” with (for free!) assured me it would be over by the time I was due. The mid-wife, who, I swear said her name was Mrs. Pretzel, spoke no English. I hobbled along the conversation in my poor German and as I did, I grew more and more relieved, certain. In spite of the language barrier, she conveyed to me what I needed: warmth, respect, assurance, experience and holiest of holies, optimism. My decision was made then and there: Triemli would be the place for us. And it was.

My birth experience ended up being the antithesis to my birth plan. In the face of my one year old son, the series of events that brought him here have become laughably irrelevant. If I learned anything about my preparatory visits to hospitals in Zurich, it is the following: they are all equipped for different births. Birthing tubs, balls and ropes, mid-wives knowledgeable in homeopathy and naturopathy, are available in all the hospitals I visited as are epidurals and c-sections. Rooming-in with baby is the norm. Footprints and baby hospital bracelets are not. Contrary to rumors I heard oft and again before having my child here, the obstetrics in this country do not seem to be militantly “natural” leaning; they merely make natural choices readily available.
If I were to have another child here, I would opt to upgrade to a private insurance policy. My horrendous experience with my insurance company’s reimbursement process is one factor but the critical one is that I would want my own personal doctor with me during labor and delivery. So, all in all, I would say that choosing a clinic to give birth in, financial and health constraints not withstanding, boils down to one’s affinity to the staff.




MARIANNE EFSKIND

Born: Norway

Family: married to John Olav

Occupation: intern in public health and family medicine in Vik.




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